SILENT VOICES

Children are very special and if, when the little people pass to spirit world still children, there can be much grief felt by the parents, grandparents, siblings,
aunts, uncles, teachers and friends. Whilst on the physical plane they have already made lots of contacts and connections with others a lot of love connections.

One never expects a child to pass, no,..and yes it does happen. As much as we tell ourselves that it will not and should not, there are
quite a few children that do.

It is heartbreaking and the pain can be so immense, the emotional pain, the pining can be so traumatic. ;Life seems to have lost its sparkle, and certainly those that are bereaved find it difficult to spark up that ignition to live every day living. This can cause some to suffer to such a degree that they suffer in being mentally hurt as well as emotionally. Not mentally ill, but mentally hurt. that can cause depression to such a degree that it will cause other illnesses.

People suffer pain at different levels and in a diversity of ways, the threshold of this suffering is unique to an individual. The thoughts can be so painful that some people will try not to think about the child and try to put it at the back of their minds, locked away for years. Those precious years that can be so soul fulfilling. Well, you looked after and loved your child from the start, you know them so well.

The love bonds were made and were growing stronger each day. You expected to see your child grow into an adult, and often there would be grandchildren later, which would have made your life even more fulfilled.

What I am saying is, that you (looked after) your child through laughter, through tears, through the tumbles and excitement. You loved your child and tended your childs growth, and my goodness me what didn't you do for that special life. You were a parent, nurse, teacher, cook, guard, guide, chauffeur, healer, cleaner, waiter.....and much more.

A few years ago I was watching a spiritual medium doing a demonstration in front of an audience. After communicating a few precious messages from spirit to the links in the audience, the medium announced he could see a young child from the spirit realms that was trying to make a connection with someone in the room. The medium looked about the room for a sign that he would link with someone. There was no movement from the audience, all was too quiet, the silence was deafening. The medium tried again but he had a frown on his face and was clasping his hands anxiously awaiting a response.

After a few minutes, he said, "I am trying to make this connection with the spirit child but the link is so weak, the childs energies are not strong enough to make the connection". Everyone in the room must have been thinking the same as myself, please, please....do not lose the link, keep trying.

The medium did not give up and said as he walked to the centre group of people, "I believe I am in this area, is there someone here who can take the link to the child." A couple looked at each other and nodded, the medium went straight to them. "I have an older man with me now who is trying to help the child with the communication to you".

After a while the medium had given enough evidence of the description of the man for the couple to recognise the link as a father to one of them, and grandfather to the child. The medium explained that the grandfather had strong energies, that the children sometimes need a bit more strength to communicate. The couple had their
communication with their child and needless to say they were overjoyed at their young son coming through for them and much happier for it.

The reason I am telling you is that your (looking after) is needed, it is exactly that, looking after the child when they have passed over. Those that you so love and cherish, that filled your life with so much love and joy.

At the time of a child passing there could have been illness, confusion, trauma, accident situations, shyness, timid traits. They may have been low on energy, not strong enough to generate that extra vitality needed to revitalise themselves due to their situation.

Now, you can help them, and this will help you, yourselves in many ways. You can visualise a cloak of your love around the child, a beautiful pink cloak of love, surround them in it. You can visualise a special emblem on it that has a special meaning for you both. They will feel it, see it and your love will nourish them.

You can raise the childs frequencies so they have more electrical conductivity to aid their mobility and functions. This will lift them higher, remove any stagnation so that they are flowing.

There is also the visualisation of a cloak of white light around them, this will brighten their mood give them upliftment, keeps out any dark areas. The white light will also feed their cells of their minds, bodies, souls, spirits making them stronger, helping them grow.

When you do your chakra meditation and visualise the colours, include your child by visualising a beautiful rainbow above the spirit child, or a rainbow coloured cloak around them. If the spirit child has a deficiency of any colour then the colours will feed them that colour. Believe me there are many colours in the spirit and soul realms, some are so brilliantly illuminated, some are not so.

Carry on teaching them, they will learn by you. Carry on healing them, do a special meditation for them to heal them. Build a sacred space for them, include a photo of you and them, light a candle, put an angel ornament there, or their favourite toy, not forgetting to say a prayer to them and for them.

When you are going for a walk in the park ask them in mind or out loud if your child want to go with you. Know that they are there, that they hear you. Treat yourself to a picnic and invite your child, pack the favourite food, something your child liked. Go to the childs favourite place, cook the favourite evening meal Produce even more love foe them, that is so easy, it will fill up both you and your child.....recharging you both. Feel those pains diminish and let the love take its place, let those happy days come back once more to both you and your child.

Do not let the pain block the wonderful time that you can have, and rightly deserve. Spirit always appreciate all that you can do to help. You may even hear the word (wonderful) quietly spoken to you, which is what they think of you.

Surround them in a cloak of starlight sparkles, giving them zest, play and jollity. They will love the way you dress them and the way you (look after) them.

The spirit children in general, carry on learning and growing, they have their school of many subjects. As well as the spiritual plane learning they also continue to learn many things of the physical planes. They grow and develop themselves for higher evolution, they know it and it is important to thhem. That extra help you give them will make all the difference to each and every one of them.

They also like to help, there are many ways and will come in close to help. You may feel their presence when you are sat relaxing, when you are doing the housework, making a cake......remember to celebrate their birthdays with a cake and a meal. Christmas trees need to be decorated, one of their favourite times, a gift under thetree.

Why should you not? The spirit children are for real, they are living and knowing. They will often send the parents a spiritual birthday card or wishes on your birthday, with a gift of flowers or a surprise wrapped up. They will also send spiritual letters to you, how wonderful is that?.

If you are not feeling well they may come and sit with you, you may not see them, but you may feel them. There again you may well see, hear and sense them. Let them nurse you, watch over you, thank the little darlings because some care so much. and will (look after) you.

As the spirit children knew I would be writing this article, they have come through to channel a special message.-as follows

A channelled message from a child in spirit.

Please hear me call when I speak to you my mummy and daddy, I want to tell you I am here with you. That I love you, please don't cry, please dry your tears, I try to cheer you up on sad days. I want to make you laugh again, I want to see your smile again and to hear you sing. I am right here stood next to you, I am holding your hand, I know that you feel me holding you and cuddling you at times. I kiss you, do you feel those kisses?. Be still and sense my presence. I am always helping in the house when you do things, we do them together. I would like us to spend time in the garden or park with the flowers, please let us do that often, by the trees. I sometimes come with you when you go out. do you not feel the influences of your having bought certain things...I know you often say, why did I buy that on certain things.....giggles.

With love and kisses and never goodbye.

From your spirit child.

The spirit children also understand the importance of credits, they truly love to earn them good and honest. Making the fibres for their cloths/cloaks into wonderful tapestries, weaving them into magnificent brilliance. They love to put their uniqueness into practice, making their own designs in what they produce. Laughter, jollity, playing, running, skipping indeed they love it. I have seen them doing things that they are planning to do in a future life, they are very eager and want to do well.

To-days rebirths have the knowledge and their memory is awakening of their long time codes to help the planet and the kingdoms. They understand the importance of hire ring the quality of their evolution.

For those parents with physical children, enjoy those precious years, look and listen to what they are teaching you. If you do not understand what they mean, don't brush it aside, beccause some of the children have more advanced information that may take you a while for the clarity to come. Put it away safetly in your memory bank.

The wavelengths of communication between parents and their children can be very strong. make those links stronger Enjoy your children whatever plane they are on
We all need to be cared for and (looked after) whether we are on the physical or spiritual planes.

Celestial Blessings

Copyrights Doreen Renphrey. 11/5/2011