Michelle Hare My Story

My name is Michelle Louise Hare and I was born on the 24th November 1972 at Kings Mill hospital Sutton in Ashfield, Nottinghamshire. I am the oldest daughter of Paul & Marilyn Henson and I share the same birthday as my grandma Jarvis my mums mum. I am one of 3 girls although sadly our youngest sister Trena sadly passed to spirit after her life was taken immediately after birth on the 29th November.

The middle child is Susan Dawn and we both spent the majority of our childhood in a small village called Rainworth just outside of Mansfield, Nottinghamshire. My Dad was a miner and my Mum worked within the care industry; however it wasn’t until I was school age that my parents settle in Rainworth as for many years before this we lived in several places including Ollerton where I had my first experience.

I was four years old and one morning whilst in my parent’s bedroom I asked, “Why are those people walking through the wall?” As I grew older I realized that I was different to everyone else but in a good kind of way. Now looking back everything falls in to place, for example: being scared of the dark, not wanting to live in an old house and being able to look back into my own past as if I was watching a film.

It was in this small two up two down in Park Street that it became apparent that things were not quite right. Being a small terrace house the garden was small so Mum & Dad made the attic into a toy room. How amazing just imagine a 6 year old and a 3 year old climbing the second stairs to the attic and reaching the attic door, pressing the latch down pushing the door open and there the room was full of our toys, wow! It was like Christmas over again. Because we only had two bedrooms the attic had to double as a guest room. One day whilst me & my sister were at school and nursery, My Mum decided to move the furniture around in the toy room, but what she didn’t expect that after collecting us from school the room would be back to how it was before she started!.

Just to fill you in my family are extremely open and fully accept my work and have always spoken openly to me about everything, however and if you read this “Mum I’m sure you will agree it does scare you a little”. Now put yourself in my Mums position She moved around all the furniture and tidied away all of the toys and then in a matter of a quick walk to collect a child or two, its moved back!...see what I mean.

The experience my Mum had at park Street was unspoken to both us children and we suddenly moved to Rainworth where we all felt settled apart from I suddenly became afraid of the dark. It was so serious that I used to ask my Sister Sue to walk through the kitchen to the other side of the room to turn on the light for me. My parents thought enough was enough and decided to have an electrician to fit an extra light switch for me at the kitchen door so all I had to do is stand in the living room and put my hand into the kitchen and turn the light on, with my eyes shit firmly it was like putting my arm into the unknown!. This was the house I left Michelle Henson & became Michelle Hare to my now husband of 15 years Carl.

Through my child hood and into early adulthood I now understand that I was extremely psychic, I seem to always understood people and was able to answer a question before being asked. Can you imagine what this was like and what my teachers and peers must have thought?. However I soon became good at covering up my strangeness to others by being a fast talker, (yes this strength has also grown thank you), however my ability to be a magnet to people took some getting used to. Why did strangers want to me and open up to me? I was just Michelle plain me!. This carried on and I found that as if by destiny I met Carl my future husband at the age of 16 on 11th February 1989 a massive 22 years ago.

We became solid and we felt very comfortable with each other and the following year November 24th (my birthday)1990 we were engaged, this seem to shock our peers as 17 years old and engaged this was not really the in thing during our error. We then purchased our first home on 25/ 5/1995 a brand new home in Skegby, Notts. The house was new as I could not bring myself to buy a home someone may have died in. Ironic now eh when you think about it, I have the busiest house where spirit are concerned and have the most calm feeling when you enter.

I sat one day at work and I had the overwhelming desire to become a councillor, as I battled with this desire over the next few months my Mum said she was off to see a Clairvoyant and that my sister was going to was I interested in tagging along too. Now I totally called my Mum’s bluff as I’d always said I was not interested in seeing anyone who did this before and always went out of my way to avoid it too. To my mums surprise I said I’d go. As we arrived I was still determined to see someone and this I did but with this reading I was not aware it was about to change my life forever. I sat before this man and all he said was “you should be sitting where I’m sitting” and I said straight back to him I know I should! You know in the way your mouth talks before you are ready type of way. I can’t now tell you anything else about that reading apart from the overwhelming feeling of a weight being lifted off my shoulders and feeling very different from that day on.

I was advised during the reading to seek out a development group so I opened the yellow pages that day and phoned a new aged shop in Matlock Derbyshire, and to my surprise the lady who answered was very welcoming and explained that she was starting a brand new development group that week and that I was very welcome to join. I understand now that where my development was concerned none of this was down to coincidence, it was all instigated by a higher energy as it had a lot to do with timing maybe it was my time to wake up my and to start the most amazing spiritual journey.

I’d gone to my new group for a few sessions and it became very apparent that I was advancing very quickly and that spirit was able to communicate through me. I was very laid back and I suppose comfortable with myself and happy with where I felt I was heading. My day job would soon affect my attendance and made it impossible for me to attend the group so I eventually had to stop going. I continued to meditate at home and this became easier the more I did it and I put in to practice the safety measures they taught me that protected me in my work. I always and will always use these measures to keep me safe and I now teach these skills to my group members today.

My abilities along with my confidence grew to speak to the public, and I believe this was due to me being guided down a route to become a sales agent for an Insurance company. I truly believe I was sent down this route by my guides to build my confidence, as they knew that in years to come I would need my this ability and inner strength that this job taught me to deliver my messages in public. If you asked me when I was in my last year at school what I wanted to do then all I’d say was “A Telephonist” and I guess I am a telephonist now but without a phone, I take messages and connect one world to another.

The most amazing day of our lives was when we held our daughter Charlotte Georgina Hare for the first time. Let me set the scene; all the way through my pregnancy I was adamant that I would give birth early and that “Charlie” would be born on the 1st December, not on the 17th December. On my birthday (just to remind you 24th Nov) I said to Carl we need to go to a very well know electrical store to buy a digital camera. You don’t mess with a heavily pregnant lady, so off we went to buy the camera. (I know I’m throwing dates galore at you but please keep up). I’d always known that something would happen, on my sister’s Trena’s birthday would play a part in our daughter’s entry to this world and how true was this as on the 29th November 2001 I started to feel unwell; this later was confirmed as labour. At 7.30pm we were advised to go into the maternity hospital, the same hospital that I was born and into the same room that my sister sadly passed to spirit some years before. My mum & dad were sat outside and Carl asked for my mum to come in and to reassure herself that I was fine. Mum came in turned my worry and apology about me going in to labour on Trena’s birthday into a positive, by saying she may have lost all those years ago but she was about to be given a gift that is precious her first grandchild. Charlotte was born just a few hours before the 1st December due to the medical team assisting with my delivery. I guess I was kind of right and by this time not wishing to split hairs (pardon the pun) as I was now a Mummy and Carl a Daddy.

Parenthood defiantly heightened my Mediumship abilities and whilst Charlie was a baby I started a new business “Infinity Psychic fares” and had several mediums & Psychics working at my events. I guess you could say the man who read me was right after all eh. As during my time organising these events I was still shy at using my abilities in public, but due to my fellow workers my abilities grew stronger and it wasn’t long before I was standing there in front of audiences channelling spirit. My first ever platform experience was to stand in front of an audience of around thirty people and pass on confirmation of a horse to a lady, ironic as we now are the proud parents of a little Pony called Dizzy, bless. You could say I’m the type of person that likes to just get it over and done with when I’ve got the determination eh!

I now stand on platform with confidence knowing that my guide will always deliver and ensure I am able to channel either spirit, validation or both. I have also learnt directly from spirit that although people sit in an audience with a pre-conceived idea of what message they want, however spirit have other ideas, they will deliver what they feel you “need” which may be totally different. You see someone could be ignoring health warnings and solely concentrating on relationship issues which totally blanks out the real reason spirit have guided to you in first instance. I will always say to every sitter (the person who requires guidance) and explain how I work. If you have seen me work you will know I always start my sitting with a direct link to the sitter. I ask my guide (who will remain nameless) for validation such as; ailments, conditions, mannerisms, traits and birth marks or tattoos. This does normally get the sitter to sit there with an open mouth and surprised at how I know such information, however to me it’s just me doing my job and doing my job the same way each time to ensure the teaching I have received from Spirit is correct. I’m not at all doing this job or on this pathway for glory or to place me on a pedestal in any way shape or form. I do my job because it’s what I do, I said to spirit that if I work with them there would be a few conditions; 1 Thant they ensure I’m accurate 2, that they provide me with validation that is easy for me to understand and that the sitter understands what I mean. Finally no 3, that one day I would be well known but not famous for my work.

I guess that I have two out of three at the moment and someone once said to me that my age would cause me problems, I asked in what way and I was told that I would not be taken serious until I reached a certain age. Well I’m approaching 40 neat year and maybe I’m about to get my final tick in my box? Who knows eh one thing I can be sure of is that they know my higher beings to which I am eternally great full. I thank you for walking through that wall all those years ago and for allowing me to be able to help so many people in many ways. I look forward to a continued spiritual pathway and realise that this pathway has may turns and crossroads and know that with my guide walking with me side by side the road will be enlightening, enjoyable and most of all peaceful.
Michelle Hare age 37 ½ ;)

Michelle Hare is a Medium/Clairvoyant and lives just outside of Mansfield Nottinghamshire. She is available for, private, Stage and charity events and also works as a Medium for “Haunted Events UK”
visit her site. www.michelle-hare.co.uk/